What are the dynamics that can cause Master/slave relationships to go wrong

philAugust 3, 2019

What are some of the common dynamics where a Master slave relationship go wrong? In this article we will explore a few of these dynamics. These dynamics can of...

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Kinky wheel of consent

philJuly 28, 2019

As mentioned on twitter I attended a workshop a few weeks ago on the kinky wheel of consent. A tool used to help BDSM people to understand what they want, and ...

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Why communication in BDSM and 24/7 is so important

philJuly 21, 2019

Communication, communication, communication. Time and time again we say on the BDSM scene that communication is very important. But why is communication so imp...

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The difference between obedience and submission

philSeptember 23, 2018

Is submission important? As a slave - obedience is something we all like to do. When we think about Master/slavery a lot of our thoughts come down to control.&n...

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What questions to ask when seeking someone 24/7

philJuly 15, 2018

I started to have a fascinating conversation with someone about what do you look for in a slave or Master, which has led to this article. The easy answer You lo...

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The stages of enlightenment to slavery and service

philJune 4, 2018

From fantasising about slavery to successfully finding a Master to serve, there are a number of stages a person can find themselves going through. In this blog'...

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Why a slave needs ego. Contradiction or not?

philMarch 14, 2018

A few articles ago I wrote why a Master needs humility. This time I talk why a slave needs an ego to become a slave. Why is a slave having an ego controversial?...

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Why a good Master needs humility

philFebruary 20, 2018

In this article we will talk about one of the many things a Master needs to be a good Master, and that is that any good Master needs humility. A strange statem...

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