How to change your Master mindset

philJuly 19, 2020

Why a successful Master/slave relationship is through being BRAVE

philJune 18, 2020

Don’t avoid the contradictions, be the Master/slave you truly are

philMay 23, 2020

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Creating a slave CV

philNovember 17, 2019

What can a slave offer a Master? We often focus on the sex, but service is much more than that. Serving a Master can be anything. From sex to being an...

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Protect yourself from the dangerous people in the BDSM scene

philNovember 3, 2019

My experiences with power exchange have been incredible, with moments of such sweet intensity and connection, one wonders how other people live without it. But...

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How to decide to become a 24/7 slave

philOctober 13, 2019

Last year I thought I had the option to take a 3 month trial with a Master. I would move to his house and be in captivity 24/7 for 3 months. From this, we would then decide whether I would become his wholly own slave. How do you make a decision l...

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How to have a polyamorous relationship – part 2

philSeptember 8, 2019

Introduction In looking for lifestyle slavery, I have found that it is widespread that there will be more than 1 person in the relationship. So knowing how ...

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How to have a polyamorous relationship – part 1

philSeptember 3, 2019

In looking for lifestyle slavery, I have found that it is widespread that there will be more than 1 person in the relationship. So knowing how to deal with a p...

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A BDSM picture is worth a 1000 words

philAugust 25, 2019

I was talking with an amazing Master in Berlin a few weeks ago, and He mentioned a tool He used for both Himself and the slave to better understand each other. The tool is for the Master and slave to communication what they like through pictures ...

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What are the dynamics that can cause Master/slave relationships to go wrong

philAugust 3, 2019

What are some of the common dynamics where a Master slave relationship go wrong? In this article we will explore a few of these dynamics. These dynamics can of...

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Kinky wheel of consent

philJuly 28, 2019

As mentioned on twitter I attended a workshop a few weeks ago on the kinky wheel of consent. A tool used to help BDSM people to understand what they want, and ...

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Why communication in BDSM and 24/7 is so important

philJuly 21, 2019

Communication, communication, communication. Time and time again we say on the BDSM scene that communication is very important. But why is communication so important in BDSM and in BDSM 24/7 relationships? When two people on the BDSM scene meet t...

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The difference between obedience and submission

philSeptember 23, 2018

Is submission important? As a slave - obedience is something we all like to do. When we think about Master/slavery a lot of our thoughts come down to control.&n...

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How to change your Master mindset

Maturing the Master Mindset

Why a successful Master/slave relationship is through being BRAVE

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How to change your Master mindset

Maturing the Master Mindset

Why a successful Master/slave relationship is through being BRAVE

Don’t avoid the contradictions, be the Master/slave you truly are

Does a slave have needs?

How to

Creating a slave CV

Protect yourself from the dangerous people in the BDSM scene

How to decide to become a 24/7 slave

How to have a polyamorous relationship – part 2

How to have a polyamorous relationship – part 1

A BDSM picture is worth a 1000 words

What are the dynamics that can cause Master/slave relationships to go wrong

Kinky wheel of consent

Why communication in BDSM and 24/7 is so important

The difference between obedience and submission