This page contains useful links to specific subjects and resources around BDSM, along with some specific BDSM companies that can be of use to those in the Master/slave Lifestyle.
Deep topics
Here are some very good links to other resources around a very particular topic.
Jarod Johansen’s Ball Stretching Guide
This is an amazing resource that details the reality and the pragmatic steps needed in order to stretch and enlarge the ballsack/scrotum. For all those that have fantasised about it – here is how you really make it happen.
The Butt Plug Lifestyle
Ever wanted to know how to wear a butt plug permanently, or perhaps you have wanted to do this to a slave? This resource details the pragmatic ins and outs of such a lifestyle decision and the real-world steps to help make this happen.
Chastity
For anything about male chastity, I recommend Denying Thumper. It is the go-to resource on chastity with updated reviews and recommendations for the best chastity device for you or your slave.
Looking after your leather and boots
Useful links on how to look after leather and the best way to clean and look after boots. Useful for Master and slave alike.
Master Mike and an owner of a slave for more than 30 years.
This article is an interview with a Master and his life with a real-life slave. Parts of this frighten me to death, others excite me. I think it is a must-have read for anyone interested in the Master/slave lifestyle on what can go right, but also what can go wrong.
Reviews of sex toys
ToyTorture was created to review sex and kink toys – it is for everybody who is interested in BDSM.
Check out ToyTorture.com – Perverting the World one Kinkster at a Time
Interesting companies & Products
I do not want Master/slave Lifestyle to become classified, but here are some products I would like to highlight
Dungorium
A fetish website that sells “Dungotube”. Although for someone like me the cage is a little too small, I know other people that love them. I also love their bondage chair and will be buying one when I am able to!
Marcus Rahn
Berlin furniture maker who also makes fetish and dungeon furniture that is exquisitely beautiful as well as incredibly functional.
AlphaWhips
An old contact of mine that is passionate about whipping, and has taken that passion to build the best whips
Monkey Sergeant
Amazing leather and design, and even better when you see it in person. I will admit I still do not have any of his myself but it is my list to purchase.
Magazines
- Drummer: Subscriber magazine – where it seeks to inform, entertain and inspire subscribers around leathersex, leatherwear, leather and rubber gear, S&M, bondage and discipline.
- Alphatribe – ALPHA.MALE.FETISH: Magzine by the same group that has bought you Darklands around all topics to do with fetish.
Is something missing?
Creating the BDSM section has been a huge effort, and it is very probable I have missed good resources and other good people.
If you know of a good resource to add contact me here and let me know.

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