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I like to move quickly to a first visit—usually a weekend. However, a longer time can be negotiated if you are out of Europe.
This first visit also allows for a lot of feedback so I can make sure I understand you, you feel safe, and you want to go deeper into your slave and animal self. But always, you will be under my control, and I will make the decisions.
So, any initial chats are focused on ensuring we are compatible and you feel safe during a visit – not endless chats.
This first visit is to see if we can connect. Often, there is not enough of a connection due to no one\’s fault, or the slave needs some time to integrate the experience before wanting to carry on.
But if there is a spark and both the slave and I want to continue, then we will have more visits.
Progressing
This first visit is to see if we can connect. Often, there is not enough of a connection due to no one’s fault, or the slave needs some time to integrate the experience before wanting to carry on.
But if there is a spark and both the slave and I want to continue, then we will have more visits.
Once enough time has elapsed to build up trust and confidence that both Master and slave feel something is serious here, we move to the next phase.
This includes training collars and more frequent and longer visits from the slave. The slave might even work remotely with me at times to accommodate this.
And if, after a negotiated time, we both want to go forward, the slave will move in with me.