Master slave lifestyle

A guide to living Master and slave 24/7

This BDSM Master/slave website is for all those people who want to live authentically as Master & slaves in a power exchange relationship as a lifestyle. To live it as a lifestyle – be that 24/7/365 Master/slave, as a leather family in brotherhood, fetish or BDSM, to some other form of power exchange, and to help you find a way to live authentically and courageously in this unique and special life.

This place is for those wanted to find out more – be it beginners or advance – and to be the start of connecting those of us that are living the lifestyle or trying to find it. And a place to connect with others, and a place where we can come for help and support.

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I interview real people living the real 24/7 Master/slave lifestyle.

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MEET the Master/slave Book club: Every two weeks a small group of Masters and slave from across the world meet up online to discuss a book.

BE COACHED by me for free: I offer my professional skills as a coach and my 20 years of experiences living the BDSM Master/slave lifestyle to help people when they need it.


This Master/slave blog is also a community for gay male-identified men helping others, including a book club, workshops, free coaching and access to other BDSM resources for those wanting to learn more. For those who are beginners or advance; the Master/slave Lifestyle blog is a place to connect with others and a place where we can come for help and support

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I've been living the Master/slave lifestyle for over 20 years. There have been amazing moments in this journey, and moments of trials and tribulations.

Master/slave Lifestyle was created to help and support people through that journey, and to make it less lonely.

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Listen to exclusive interviews of the Master/slave BDSM podcast

With over 4000 listeners, listen to exclusive interviews of gay Masters and slaves who have been in relationships for decades

How to have an unbelievable BSDM Master/slave relationship

Articles on how to have a successful and unbelievable BDSM Master/slave relationship centred on genuine, authentic gay Master/slave relationships. These articles focus on the practical reality of making these relationships work.

The right way to end a BDSM Master/slave relationship

Although we hope it will not happen, there is a right way To End A BDSM Master/slave Relationship. These articles explore how both Master and slave should act and what the fetish community could do.

Thoughts of my life's journey as a slave

These articles are some of my personal thoughts and reflections of my life’s journey as a slave and my voyage to becoming a Master’s 24/7 TPE gay slave.

Rare ways to bring spirituality and community to BDSM

Find out about some of these rare ways to bring spirituality and community to BDSM, and bring these powerful and unique techniques into the 24/7 gay slavery lifestyle.