Are you struggling to take that next step?

Do you feel you could never be a Master or slave and thrive in the normal world?

You want to take the first steps, but you feel stuck.

You want to go deeper into your fetishes and kinks but not sure how?

You want something more intense? But you are scared to unleash yourself Or you don’t know where to draw the line between your more sadistic and depraved fantasies

Do you feel blocked?

Or uncertain of your next step forward

Shame stops you from putting your head between a man’s feet

Maybe you come home at night and wish so much to come home to a Master who you can put your head between his feet, but instead, you feel this shame stopping you.

You feel you cannot be yourself


Or do you wake up knowing you will not live your authentic life today but have no idea how to balance slavery with a regular job and career?

Worry about other people

Or you want to embrace your kinks but you worry about what people would think of you if you did

Worry about being judged

You may want to control and take ownership of someone but feel you will be judged for wanting this, or you may not know how to go about it.

Taster session

Or do you want some advice?

Perhaps you have started to have a power exchange relationship or are experimenting with your kinks and desires and are looking for some help and support.

Then it’s time for you to take the M/S CONFIDENCE BOOST and understand what’s holding you back.

In just 45 minutes discover the unseen things that will help you move forward

In 45 minutes, you’ll know the unseen things that are causing you shame and blocking you from living your life as you deserve and how you build your confidence to take action to become that Master/slave while balancing with the real world.

Taster session

How it works

Purchase the coaching

Book the 45-minute session

Answer questions

Answer a couple of questions by email so I can make the session as effective as possible.

Have the session through online video

Leave with confidence and clarity about the next steps you want to take on your journey not matter where you are.

At the end you will know

01

The one main thing that is stopping you from moving forward

If you are blocked or uncertain we will find out what is causing this and what you need to overcome it

02

The next action you can take

What is your next best action you take easily after the coaching session to move you forward on you fetish and Master/slave journey

03

Clarity on your next steps forward

If you’re uncertain about what to do next – you will have the clarity, and the confidence to move forward.

About Me

I’ve spent 20 years exploring and experiencing 24/7 Master/slave relationships. My unique experiences as both Master and slave allow me to understand and help people on both sides of the power exchange spectrum.



I’m now a Master looking for a deep connection with the slaves I train, and I’m slowly looking to build my own leather family of 24/7 slaves.



For 20 years, I was a slave, leading to a global exploration of the Master/slave scene, serving Masters long-term and 24/7 from East Coast Australia to the West Coast of the USA and South Africa to Finland.



My journeys had incredible times but also dark times. But through these, I have learned what the reality of the Master/slave lifestyle is and how to live it.



As a coach and educator, I now help others avoid my mistakes, find what they really need, and have the courage to find the Master/slave for them. I also help those already experienced in the M/S lifestyle.

I have appeared in numerous publications and have participated in panels and workshops at numerous events worldwide, including the Master/slave Conference, Darklands, CLAW, The Village Berlin, and Recon.

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MY PROJECTS
Master/slave & Kink Coaching
Gay Confidence Coaching
Career Coaching
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How have others found my coaching programme

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I consider him a world-class authority regarding Master/slave and power dynamic relationships

Guy Baldwin

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Slave Phil is the guide you want on your journey

Kuffboy

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My dominant side was there all along. Now that I know this, there is no going back for me!

Master M

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I am now going out on the fetish scene, making friends and arranging times to visit and serve Masters!

footsolider

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I can now celebrate my own uniqueness

slave ric

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He helped me unleash my beast while keeping me grounded in kindness

Sir Benjamen

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Why choose me

Expert Coach

With over a decade of experience as an international executive coach, I’ve had the privilege of collaborating with some of the world’s most renowned organisations, including BBC, the largest broadcaster globally, and ITV, the leading commercial broadcaster in the UK.

My coaching journey has been all-encompassing, spanning every echelon of organisations – from visionary founders and C-level executives to directors and emerging leaders taking their first steps in their careers.

20 years of experience as a Master and slave

I have spent 20 years exploring my fetishes, first as a slave and now as a Master. I know what it is like on both sides of the power spectrum, enabling me to understand and help whether you are dominant or submissive.

A world authority in power exchange

am globally recognised for my expertise in the Master/slave Lifestyle, having conducted workshops at prestigious venues worldwide, such as CLAW in the USA and gay-BDSM.clubRecon London Full FetishThe Stretch Festival, and The Village in Berlin.

I’ve also written a book using archetypes to help people understand power exchange.

My insights and experiences have made me a sought-after voice in this field, leading to numerous interviews on various international podcasts. Additionally, my written contributions, exploring the depths and nuances of the Master/slave Lifestyle, have been featured in many fetish magazines around the globe.

Is this suitable for me?

For anyone interested in power exchange

If you are interested in power exchange, this suits you!

Everything on the website, including the books, courses, and coaching, is designed to help anyone interested in power exchange,
regardless of what term they use to identify themselves.

Beginners & Advanced

If you are just starting out and looking to take the first steps with your desires, I have you covered. I hand hold you step by step of the way.

For those already experienced but wanting to explore power exchange further, I can help you do so and deal with any blockers you may have.

Be it in a relationship or already in one.

Masters & slave

I have been both Master and slave, so I understand both perspectives, including the struggles and challenges of both roles.

My books, courses, and coaching reflect my understanding of both the dominant and submissive sides, giving you a unique perspective to help you move forward in your journey.

Any sex and sexuality

Although I write from my experience as a gay cis man, all that I write and create is suitable for all sexes and sexuality.

I am also demisexual – so you will see a strong thread of mindful connection in all of my work.

Next step coaching

Single taster session for Masters, slaves and those who wanted to explore their fetish more

45-minute session

To help you gain clarity in moving forward

Shame free

Your will this work a shame-free zone where you can embrace who you really are

Bespoke to you

Before the session we will speak by email so I can make sure you get the help you need

Completely confidential

All my work is completely confidential

Embrace your kinks and fetishes

Signature coaching programme

$99

45 minute session
Unblock the unseen thing that stops you from moving forward
Hints and tips on what to do next
Gain clarity on your next step
Know you’re on the right track

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