Find a selection of other fetish and kink blogs, podcasts and video channels. Some of these specifically talk more about the Master/slave Lifestyle while others speak and educate around related issues around fetish. Most around gay male-identified people.
Blogs
Bornslaves
An amazing website by a Master who details his version of Mastery based on spirituality.
“BORN SLAVES are a family of real, legitimate, consensual, highly developed and dedicated men and women who have accepted what is arguably one of the world’s highest spiritual callings. Their purpose is to obey the Owner of whom they are a part and serve the world in extraordinary ways.

The Drew Duality
Blog of a Dom/sub switch who is growing his kinky side through chastity, discipline and control with his husband and an owned boy/slave.
Also check out:
- https://leathersamfinland.com – a blog from someone who is very passionate around fetishes such as rubber, leather, gear and bondage.
- http://kinkinsight.com/en/ – A passionate man around fetish who writes in a blog to “provides an insight into the “knotted” world of human sexuality”
- https://www.sirdave.uk – A Top, Master and Escort who writes about fetish and kink – you can also check out his interview with me on the podcast.
- Kinky Flamingo – A german man who “…started this blog to create a platform for articles about kinkster lifestyles, kinky artists and kink culture stuff. It should be a place for interesting things about different aspects of kinky life and a possibility for taking new perspectives and getting some inspiration.“
- Leatherati Online – A now defunct blog talking about fetish.
- Cuir Underground Home – A paused blog around fetish that has some very good articles to read
Podcasts
Check it out: Make sure to check out the Master/slave Lifestyle’s very own podcast here – where I interview real Masters and slaves living the real 24/7 lifestyle.
Kinky Boys podcast

A show exploring the ins and outs, kinks and roles of the gay BDSM and kink scene.
With interviews with experienced kinksters exploring their unique fetishes.
Tea Bags & JoystiXXX

Two British Boyfriends discuss Video Games, Kinky Sex, Polyamoury and everything in between. From why Darth Vader might be a leather daddy, to which video game is making us scream nothing is off-limits. So why not pour yourself a cup of tea.
Shut the woof up

Shut the WOOF up is a monthly, absurdist/comedy podcast by pups, for pups. But also NOT by pups and for non-pups too. See? It’s weird. Some might even call us a pupcast….
Listen to Shut the WOOF up here
Also check out:
- The Cage Podcast list – Even more podcasts – this one page gives links to many other kinky and fetish podcasts you might be interested in
Videos
Watts the Safeword
Kink Friendly sex education channel breaking down stigmas and answering all sorts of questions,
Real Clear Simple Fetish
Fetish Man who talks about his journey and interviews others about their fetish and interests
Cigar Talks with Jason Collins
A pornstar who provides advice on lots of things including kink.
The Fathers Project
Imagine a world where AIDS never happened and our heroes lived. Who would they be? Who would we be? The Fathers Project explores these questions by weaving history, current gatherings and fiction to create a vision of queer utopia.
Also check out:
- 69 Documentary – a documentary exploring the oldest gay leather fetish social group in Europe, the Sixty Nine Club. The last surviving older members take us through home movies and tales of debauchery, love and friendship.
Is something missing?
Creating the BDSM section has been a huge effort, and it is very probable I have missed good resources and other good people.
If you know of a good resource to add contact me here and let me know.

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