Find a selection of other incredible fetish resources, from blogs, podcasts and video channels to one-off articles, to online magazines, to places where you can buy fetish products.
If you see a ? – this means that it is a website/resource I particularly like and recommend!
Blogs
- 🧑💻 Love Beastly – A great blog on everything to do with sex
- 🧑💻 Bornslaves – An amazing website by a Master who details his version of Mastery based on spirituality.
- 🧑💻 The Drew Duality – Blog of a Dom/sub switch who is growing his kinky side through chastity, discipline and control with his husband and an owned boy/slave.
- 🧑💻 https://leathersamfinland.com – a blog from someone who is very passionate about fetishes such as rubber, leather, gear and bondage.
- 🧑💻 http://kinkinsight.com/en/ – A passionate man around fetish who writes in a blog to “provide an insight into the “knotted” world of human sexuality”
- 🧑💻 Leatherati Online – A now defunct blog talking about fetish.
- 🧑💻 Cuir Underground Home – A paused blog around fetish that has some very good articles to read
- 🧑💻 Old blog on training a slave
Good information resources
- Bdsmcontracts.org – all about BDSM and Master/slave contracts
- Pony Play – the best website/blog around everything to do with pony play
- Jarod Johansen’s Ball Stretching Guide – This is an impressive resource that details the reality and the pragmatic steps needed in order to stretch and enlarge the ballsack/scrotum. For all those who have fantasised about it – here is how you really make it happen.
- The Butt Plug Lifestyle – Ever wanted to know how to wear a butt plug permanently, or perhaps you have wanted to do this to a slave? This resource details the pragmatic ins and outs of such a lifestyle decision and the real-world steps to help make this happen.
- Chastity – Denying Thumper For anything about male chastity, I recommend Denying Thumper. It is the go-to resource on chastity, with updated reviews and recommendations for the best chastity device for you or your slave.
- ToyTorture.com was created to review sex and kink toys – it is for everybody who is interested in BDSM.
- Page on puppy play and lots more links at the bottom
- BDSM Library – Lots of stories
- Hypnosis tracks
- ?️ B.E.S.T. slave training – Old website around training a slaves mindset through Adler psychology (now defunct so this is the internet archive)
Good articles
- Suspension trauma – Wikipedia
- Guy Baldwin – Wikipedia
- The Truth of the Old Guard
- Two videos on how to douche – How to all douche properly and this one from CLAW
- Blog on Boot Blacking and also Bootblack History – The Bootblack Wiki
- Article on how to train a slave
- What is solo polyamory? My take | Solo Poly
Podcasts
- Kinky Boys Podcast:A show exploring the ins and outs, kinks and roles of the gay BDSM and kink scene. –
- Tea Bags & JoystiXXX – Two British Boyfriends discuss Video Games, Kinky Sex, Polyamoury and everything in between.
- RealSimplyClearFetish – Fetish Man who talks about his journey and interviews others about their fetish and interests
- Full Cow – an excellent podcast that covers many topics around fetish and leather
- BDSM Reimagined – exceptional podcast on domination and submission with a focus on the psychology
- Cigar Talks – A pornstar who provides advice on lots of things including kink.
- Facets of Leather
- Plus my own..
App(s)
Magazines
- The Leather Journal – Lots of news around the fetish scene
- Drummer Magazine – Gay Leather, Rubber and Fetish Culture
- Desert Head Mag – Very good magazine with fetish articles and photography of all body types
⛓ Product sites
?️ ToyTorture.com was created to review sex and kink toys – it is for everybody who is interested in BDSM.
- Dungorium – A fetish website that sells “Dungotube,” and other fantastic things
- Parus-Leder – outstanding metal bondage
- Evil toys
- Fetters
- AlphaWhips – An old contact of mine who is passionate about whipping and has taken that passion to build the best whips
- Monkey Sergeant – Exceptional leather and design, and even better when you see it in person.
- https://www.steelworxx.de
- Steelwerks Extreme (I think it is Canadian)
- BON4 Male Chastity Devices to stay devoted to your Keyholder– BON 4
- Lock the Cock
- Lovesense – Remote controlled vibrating butt plug
- Rough Trade Gear
Is something missing?
Creating the BDSM section has been a huge effort, and it is very probable I have missed something.
If you know of a good resource to add, contact me here and let me know.
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