Category: How to be a good BDSM slave
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Creating a Master or slave resume
What can a slave offer a Master? We often focus on the sex, but service is much more than that. Serving a Master can be anything. From sex to being an object, to cooking, to cleaning, to anything. So a good Master will want to know what you can offer them. Last year this gave…
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Protect yourself from the dangerous people in the BDSM scene
My experiences with power exchange have been incredible, with moments of such sweet intensity and connection, one wonders how other people live without it. But with such beauty and light, comes darkness and ugliness. This article is about the more dangerous side of the scene, and what to look out for when searching for a…
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How to decide to become a 24/7 slave
Last year I thought I had the option to take a 3 month trial with a Master. I would move to his house and be in captivity 24/7 for 3 months. From this, we would then decide whether I would become his wholly own slave. How do you make a decision like this? Can you…
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The difference between obedience and submission
Is submission important? As a slave – obedience is something we all like to do. When we think about Master/slavery a lot of our thoughts come down to control. Loosing control, and being controlled by the other. A Master orders. The slave obeys. But is obedience enough? Obedience Obedience can be forced upon someone. A…
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The stages of enlightenment to slavery and service
From fantasising about slavery to successfully finding a Master to serve, there are a number of stages a person can find themselves going through. In this blog’s first joint article with slave sean we try to describe these stages. In part 1 we detail the first 4 stages. Fantasise As with most things it starts…
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Why a slave needs ego. Contradiction or not?
A few articles ago I wrote why a Master needs humility. This time I talk why a slave needs an ego to become a slave. Why is a slave having an ego controversial? In my discussions with Masters, and with my learnings, a slave needs to let go of their ego in order to serve…
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Why a good Master needs humility
In this article we will talk about one of the many things a Master needs to be a good Master, and that is that any good Master needs humility. A strange statement to make. Is not humility something we seek in the slave, not the Master. But this contradiction can be answered by a question:…