Category: Discover how YOU can find a Master/slave by moving from fantasy to reality
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I cannot be a Master/slave; I look too..
I first engaged with the BDSM scene and found Masters using Recon and other now-defunct websites. Then several years later, I started to attend some BDSM bars, including the S.M. Gays event in London (perfect for beginners). Before I finally started to attend some of the larger events, such as European Folsom and Berlin Leather Easter. One…
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Two of the greatest myths that hold people back from being a Master/slave
There can be a lot of myths about what it is like to be a 24/7 Master/slave, which can hold many people back. Here are some of the most prominent. A Master cannot be vulnerable A myth is that the Master is a god-like being who is always perfect. He has no issues and needs…
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How Shame Blocks Our Master/slave Fetishes And How Love Helps
Shame – a painful feeling of humiliation and distress caused by the knowledge of wrong behaviour. Shame – an action used to make someone feel shame so they will do something different. Shame – a feeling that is all too common when we want to embrace our fetish. Many people can feel shame when first…
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Don’t avoid the contradictions, be the Master/slave you truly are
Just before I moved, I had received an email from a Master. In it, he was describing the contradiction of what he thought a Master should be, and what he was as a person. Because of this difference, he was feeling self-doubt and shame. I think many of us can relate to these feelings –…
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How to decide to become a 24/7 slave
Last year I thought I had the option to take a 3 month trial with a Master. I would move to his house and be in captivity 24/7 for 3 months. From this, we would then decide whether I would become his wholly own slave. How do you make a decision like this? Can you…
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The stages of enlightenment to slavery and service
From fantasising about slavery to successfully finding a Master to serve, there are a number of stages a person can find themselves going through. In this blog’s first joint article with slave sean we try to describe these stages. In part 1 we detail the first 4 stages. Fantasise As with most things it starts…