Man looking out through bars: long term permanent bondage in TPE
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The Insider View Of Long Term Permanent Bondage In TPE You Need To Know

Bondage, I love it. It is how I first started my exploration into slavery. There is nothing like the feel of rope against my skin or resting my head against the bars of a cage and knowing I am safe and home. But the role and feelings of long term permanent bondage in TPE be very different from the fantasy in our heads.

The emotional journey of long term caging

To be caged for days or week upon end is an incredibly powerful experience. A psychological journey of discovery and hardship that few realise until they do it themselves.

When I talk about long-term caging, you may temporarily leave the cage to do duties for the Master, but you will be in the cage for most of the time. And to be clear, this is a consensual journey both parties have agreed upon. No one is being forced.

In reality, long term permanent Bondage In TPE is very boring!

Entering a cage for an extended period is very dull. There is nothing to do. You are most probably naked with no phone or TV, so you are stuck there with nothing to do. The only thing we have is ourselves and our minds and service to the Master when we are let out.

From being very horny and excited, you find your cock softening and the idea of sex disappearing.

You can try it. Put yourself naked into your wardrobe and sit there for 1 hour. Set a timer outside. See how long you last, and see how quickly you become bored.

Everything is stripped from us, but what we bring in ourselves

Naked, no possessions, alone but for the Master. Caging strips us of everything but ourselves. It means we indeed find who we are in a cage. Long term permanent bondage in TPE strips us down to our core.

Any issue we have tried to avoid, any insight we want to ignore, through the distractions of the mainstream world – they will come and find us in the cage while we sit or lie there waiting.

We can no longer distract ourselves. As with all people, we can distract ourselves with our work, phones, TV, shopping, drugs etc. All our usual mechanisms we can use to avoid reflecting and to avoid dealing with issues; they are no longer an option for us when we are sitting there in the cage.

If you are not ready for this, it can be a shock.

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For myself, I remember a time when I was caged. It was after a very traumatic time with a Master, which I have spoken about before. I had done everything to avoid facing the issues of being thrown out from the stable. A month or so later, I served a new Master, and I was caged with no escape from my thoughts. I had no choice but to face what had occurred to me. Finally, I had to face what had happened to me. It was not a good or pleasant experience, but it did teach me that before going into a similar situation, I needed to sort myself out and process the issue first.

If you seek permanent or long-term captivity to avoid facing issues, you will have to deal with them when you are in the cage.

Face your issues before being caged

After this unpleasant experience, I became much better at facing and reflecting on my current issues.

I have done this most often through meditation. And it is incredible how helpful meditation can be for long term captivity, bondage and caging.

You can read more about my thoughts about meditation with slavery here.

But when you meditate, you become used to sitting by yourself with no distractions understanding how you feel and think. By processing my thoughts and emotions through meditation, I can be in a cage in a more peaceful place. And being in a more peaceful place allows the caging to make me a better slave and serve better. 

Meditation can have many states, but one I want to highlight here is equanimity.

The definition of equanimity is “calmness and composure, especially in a difficult situation.”

None of us is used to being caged, so we are entering into a difficult situation by having this caging experience – even if it is something you want. 

Cultivating this state will help you enter into the initial hardship of the experience and move more effectively into a better mindset.

The positive experience of caging of long term permanent bondage in TPE

Caging can be an enjoyable experience as well! 

Firstly, you can have good insights as well. Once when I caged for five days, I realised how much I loved a Master I had been serving at a certain point during the experience. The Master caging me at that point was not the same Master I realised I loved – so this is not a Stockholm syndrome situation. It was an incredible insight to have and eventually led to me moving to Berlin.

In my positive experiences, I have found my mindset changing to a more dreamlike state. I am sure at one point; I was starting to see patterns and colours while I sat there caged, which was quite a hallucinogenic experience that I enjoyed. I am sure some people might be scared by that, but it was part of this unique experience of being caged for myself.

How does it help slavery?

So when you are caged at first, we bring all of our human concerns to the cage. And these same concerns also impact our service to a Master. We are thinking of all the things we want, our worries, dreams, what we want to do when leaving the cage. But we also have these when serving a Master.

Long term caging allows us to process these thoughts and allow them to fade and move into the next stage: acceptance.

For myself, this is a beautiful experience of peace, tranquillity, stillness and equanimity. There is nothing to do but wait for the Master, and to do so is to wait in peace as you are in a safe place and exactly as the Master wants you.

And it allows your slave soul to come out and become your primary part in a way you might never have experienced before. Our focus on service and pleasing the Master can be absolute. And of course, it is easy for a Master to control and mould us when we are in this state.

I can remember in one cage, and in front of me some distance away was gas fire (as it was cold), and I was utterly content to sit there in the cage and watch the flames move and change over time.

You can also feel other emotions – for example, stress or worry, but you hold these with equanimity. You can do nothing about it, so you remain pretty blissful about it although you feel the emotions.

Long term or permanent caging is not for the faint-hearted and should be done with preparation. But for those that want it, it can be an incredible experience.

The emotions when you understand you cannot get out of bondage or caging

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It is not bondage until you want out!

The Internet!

This is a phrase that you can come across a lot. And the fantasy of being in permanent bondage can be very compelling.

But what is the reality of when you want out? When the fun and horniness are gone, and your body feels stiff and achy, and you need to move?

The feeling you can have is fear and anxiety. Finding yourself in bondage that you have no control over makes you realise you truly have lost control to someone else.

We all understand the concept that long term or permanent bondage is to lose control to someone else. But the emotional reality of being in that situation is when we truly understand it – that we have no control anymore.

Remember, when we do bondage for a limited time or a session, there is a clearly defined end time, and often we can ask to be let out. So in these situations, we still have a lot of control.

But when we consensually agree to be in permanent bondage or captivity, we give up that control for the time we have specified. And when I say time, I am thinking about days or weeks here!

When we experience this genuine loss of control, it can be very frightening. The heart is beating hard, and the adrenalin hits in. And this feeling does not go away quickly. We are there in bondage, wanting desperately to be out of it, to claim back control, but we have no control of when that will happen. 

Some slaves might panic in this situation.

It depends on the bondage

These feeling can build up over time in a cage. But there are bondage positions and techniques where this fear of losing control can manifest more quickly.

For example, a story from me: I once found myself in a sleepsack for six hours, and I wanted out probably after 30 minutes. So for five and a half hours, I had these feelings of wanting to get out. When I was let out, I was then put back in the cage. So at all times, I was in captivity, but the bondage sack was a much more intense and highly controlled experience in which I struggled to let go. I shall come back to this story later!

What to do in this situation?

As a slave, the first thing to do is to be aware that this experience can happen. Understand that you are genuinely losing control, and this might be why you are scared or panicking.

Understand that this fear and reaction is normal. Be open about your feelings and thoughts to the Master if allowed. When doing this, do not expect the Master to let you out, but to inform the Master how you are feeling and can they help you through this experience.

And be honest. You might want to lie and come up with a health issue, but then the Master will not trust you again, and rather than listening and helping you, they may decide to leave you to deal with it on your own.

And as a Master, be aware of what the slave is feeling. You have several choices. One is to let the slave out of the bondage or to keep them in. Only you can decide what is best at that moment.

But if it is to keep the slave in bondage, how do you do this? You could leave them to struggle on their own. Or you could help them through it by allowing the slave to know they are safe and you are looking after them.

What would be best to do depends on the sort of Mastery and slavery you have between yourself and the slave. But if the aim is more extensive control and opens the slave to true control, would not helping the slave work better in your favour?

Profound control is built on trust and connection. A Master can help that along by helping a slave through these times, or the Master can be absent. Which one you think builds better trust?

Let’s return to my story of the sleepsack: The Master checked in on me to see how I was doing – as this was a very intense experience. So I was allowed to speak with him. When I told him I was struggling, he told me he would not let me out as he wanted me to stay in for a while. But he made sure I was healthy, that I had water to drink – as I was sweating a lot, and came and checked on me more frequently, asking for feedback.

By doing so, he made me feel as safe as possible while still enabling me to go through this experience to give up more control to him. I still felt scared, and after the experience, I felt very nervous as I truly realised how little control I had, but my trust did not fade with the Master.

Looking back, I realise he helped me to go through another stage of control.

And this is an important principle. As slaves, we do not give control up in a binary manner. It is a process and takes time. And something such as intense bondage can help. But a Master can be a companion to help a slave through this increasing control further, encouraging them, helping them, or a Master can be absent, and therefore the slave trusts the Master a little less. But by increasing the trust, the slave will be more willing to give up control to you in the future.

Summary of long term permanent bondage in TPE

In this article, I hope you understand the experience of long term permanent bondage in TPE and caging better. It is not something to rush into, and it is a serious decision.

It is rare to find a Master that offers long term caging, such as what I describe here. But I have found every experience profound, allowing myself to discover new things about myself. It can be unpleasant, and there can be a lot of fear, along with the positives. Only you can decide if you are ready for such an experience, and if not, maybe in the future.

After my one negative experience, I spent a year sorting myself out and making sure I was ready and able to appreciate the next. 

With the right Master helping and supporting us through that, you can end up discovering new depths to your slavery and service.

Note: If you are a Master reading this and want to offer such an experience, please do get in touch with me – I would be very interested in talking with you.

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