Category: How to Advertise Yourself
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6 steps to make a good fetish profile that attracts the right Master/slaves
When moving into the Master/slave lifestyle, or the fetish/kink lifestyle in general, there is one thing we all need to do. Create a good fetish profile. Like them or hate them, they are a fact of life. And we want to create the perfect fetish profile that attracts the right Master/slave for us. There are…
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Kink vs Sex: A tip to make you a more credible Master/slave when talking with others
One of the key differences when joining the Master/slave or general fetish/kink community is understanding the difference between sex and kink. This might seem obvious for some, but others might not even know the difference. Fucking For some, sex and kink might mean being fucked or fucking and doing this for hours. This is a…
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Creating a Master or slave resume
What can a slave offer a Master? We often focus on the sex, but service is much more than that. Serving a Master can be anything. From sex to being an object, to cooking, to cleaning, to anything. So a good Master will want to know what you can offer them. Last year this gave…
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Protect yourself from the dangerous people in the BDSM scene
My experiences with power exchange have been incredible, with moments of such sweet intensity and connection, one wonders how other people live without it. But with such beauty and light, comes darkness and ugliness. This article is about the more dangerous side of the scene, and what to look out for when searching for a…
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A BDSM picture is worth a 1000 words
I was talking with an amazing Master in Berlin a few weeks ago, and He mentioned a tool He used for both Himself and the slave to better understand each other. The tool is for the Master and slave to communication what they like through pictures rather than words. I loved this as a concept.…
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Kinky wheel of consent
As mentioned on twitter I attended a workshop a few weeks ago on the kinky wheel of consent. A tool used to help BDSM people to understand what they want, and how they can communicate that in an easy to understand way, and to allow both sides to clearly consent to a play. Special thanksSpecial…
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What questions to ask when seeking someone 24/7
I started to have a fascinating conversation with someone about what do you look for in a slave or Master, which has led to this article. The easy answer You look at the profile. See that it fits your needs and wants. Look at the photos and make sure the person looks good. Then you…