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Master/slave Lifestyle is the world’s authoritative source of Master/slave and power exchange content. Rather than focusing on fantasy, it focuses on the reality of how to live the Master/slave lifestyle successfully. It includes articles on how to find a Master or slave and how to have a successful Master/slave relationship, along with advanced articles on psychology.

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Finding a Master or slave can be very frustrating. Here is all you need to know about how to find one.

We can have a lot of fantasies when it comes to the Master/slave Lifestyle, but to be successful, we need to let these go. This set of articles helps break down the myths and allows you to understand the reality of the Master/slave lifestyle.

Everything on Master/slave relationships, from how to have a successful relationship and how Master/slave finances work to what to do when the relationship ends.

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Self-reflection is one of the most essential things a Master or slave needs to be successful in the Master/slave lifestyle, both in finding the relationship and in enabling the relationship to be successful.

Everything you need to know to become an inspiring Master

Advanced topics include things such as slave psychology and brainwashing.

External websites, books, other helpful links, and fetish events throughout the year.

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Read and listen to exactly the right content based on what you need right now in your journey in the Master/slave Lifestyle – from those just starting to experienced players in the scene.

1. Just starting out in the Master/slave Lifestyle

You’re just starting out in the Master/slave Lifestyle. Has your brain been blown by the fact this really does exist? Many years ago, when I came across my first website, I could not get over the fact that people lived what I had fantasised about since I was young.

If you’re here, I suggest starting with the articles around Fantasy to Reality and Do People Live This as a Reality. After this, I would look at the self-reflection articles to help you figure out what you really want.

I would also suggest these articles:

2. Not sure what you want

There are several blockers to taking that first step in the Master/slave Lifestyle. Shame, fear, and doubt, to name a few. But one of the biggest can be having no idea what you want from this and how you can take the first step.

If so, start with the self-reflection articles to help you identify what you need. There is also a podcast episode about the different facets of kink identity to help you figure out where you might fit. I also have a fantastic course that leads you step by step in figuring out what you need and a book that helps you understand the truth of power exchange.

I would also suggest the following articles and interviews from the podcast:

3. Find a Master/slave

Let’s face it after you get over the initial excitement of finding a Master or slave; the search can feel shitty and frustrating with all the time wasters and no-shows. I have many articles to help you move from frustration to finding that Master or slave!

vast section of articles is devoted to helping you find a Master/slave. In particular, I would suggest Protect Yourself From The Dangerous People In The BDSM Scene and Safeguarding Yourself against Fraud to make sure you stay safe. I know they are not the happiest subjects, but they will protect you in the long term. Specific articles and interviews you might find useful include

In addition, two masterclasses – each suitable for different budgets – can help you find a Master or slave with straightforward tactics that move your search to one that is much less frustrating, more efficient and easy. 

Also, check out the support group.

4. You’re in a Master/slave relationship

Well done for getting there.

I have a section all about Master/slave relationships; I also recommend the advanced topics section that contains many articles such as Does a slave have needs?Why A Successful Master/Slave Relationship Is Through Being Brave, and What Are The Dynamics That Can Cause Master/Slave Relationships To Go Wrong. I would also dip in and out of the podcast interviews so you can hear from other real-life Masters/slaves and their challenges, struggles and best practices that make their relationships work – some for decades.

I also suggest the support group. I also offer coaching to help Masters and slaves in relationships, along with existing larger Master/slave families.

5. Your Master/slave relationship has ended

It can be devastating to lose your Master or slave. I’ve been there. The unique relationship and connection also lead to some unique difficulties in coming out of a Master/slave relationship.

This section of articles is here for you to help you manage the grief process and healing, along with practical steps in what to do. 
Also, check out the support group.

If you’re here and need help, you are also welcome to contact me!

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