In this episode, we speak to both slave conrad and Alexander about their experiences with pain – how significant health issues stopped them from embracing their desires and how they moved through this to embrace and enjoy BDSM pain.
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More information on the guests
slave conrad is an owned slave, nurse, hypnotherapist, classical singer, a voice coach for singers and transmen and women, and is a writer of erotic fiction.
You can contact him on NLleatherman on twitter and recon
Alexander Hahne is a gay trans man, sex educator (gsp), somatic counsellor, sexological bodyworker (ISB), dancer and pleasure activist. He leads workshops and individual counselling on the topics of body awareness, intimacy and sexuality and is a speaker for trans-specific topics in the field of sexual health.
Check out www.alexanderhahne.com for more information.
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Podcast Index
- People can feel awkward talking about health
- How have you both approached fulfilling BDSM needs while dealing with health issues?
- A theme about power and the power to respond
- learning one can live with pain
- Having high trust with someone
- Trust yourself and know yourself
- When you open up to someone and it does not go well it is not the end of me
- If someone is in a similar issue – what recommendations would you give
- The paradox of pain – wanting it but also wanting to get rid of it
- Dealing with the practical realities of pain
- You might have health issues and limitations but you do not need to stop having BDSM experiences
- What would you like to see in the community
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