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Bespoke BDSM Coaching Programme for Masters and slaves

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Don’t You deserve to find the Master/ slave you always wanted?

Make the fantasy come true

Find out about the Master/slave Signature Coaching Programme that provides everything you need to find the Master/slave you’ve always wanted.

Do you feel?

Blocked

You look at the profile, but you feel blocked from taking the next step to meet someone

Fearful

You see a Master or slave online you would love to meet, but you play it safe as you’re too anxious to take the next step

Overwhelmed

You know this is something you want as you think about it all the time, but you have no idea how to take the next step safely

Fed-up of time wasters

Of having your time wasted with yet another person that did not know what they were talking about

Imagine instead

  • Waking up and seeing the boots of your Master. You kiss them and then look up to see those fantastic eyes looking down at you, proud of his property. Proud of you!
  • You wake up in the familiar comfort of your cage, your cock as hard as it gets in its chastity belt. Master will soon be present with your morning directions. 
  • The 9 to 5 day is finally over, and you walk back home through the door. Your slave has cooked your favourite meal. Your slave reports to You to await a very kinky evening, the rest of the world forgotten.

I’m slave phil

I can help guide you to the Master/slave you truly deserve.

My journey as a slave has led to a global exploration of the Master/slave scene, serving Masters long-term from East Coast Australia to the West Coast of the USA and South Africa to Finland.

My journey’s had incredible times but also dark times. But through these, I have learnt what the Master/slave lifestyle truly is and how to live it.

And now I help others and avoid the mistakes I made, to help them find what they truly need and their courage to find the Master/slave for them

How it works

The Signature Coaching Programme covers the entire journey of finding a Master/slave from coming out as a Master/slave to Ownership. Each signature coaching program is adapted to your bespoke needs

1. Come out and build confidence

Discovering what you want in the Master/slave lifestyle can be challenging as there are so many different versions. So I work with you to find out the sort of Master/slave you think you want to be – for example, do you want a full-time 24/7 Master/slave or someone who is a partner and a Master/slave.

We also work on your fears or shame about becoming a Master/slave. For example, A fear of giving control up to someone. By working on your blockers and discovering what sort of Master/slave you want to be, you can move forward on your search to find a Master/slave without having to second-guess yourself.

2. Discover what you want and enjoy

We will work together to create easy methods for you to reflect on your experiences as a Master/slave to figure out what you really want. We do this because it is hard to know the difference between what we think we want to what we actually need in the early stages of our search. For example, do you really want to be in bondage all the time? You can find this out quickly through an easy technique such as bullet journaling and will not have to worry if you are going after the right thing. You’ll leave with an initial action plan on experiences you want to find the Master/slave for you.

3. Attract the right Master/slaves for you

We will work together to write the best profile based on what you want and what you can offer to attract incredible Master/slaves that fill your needs the best. As there are so many fakes and time-wasters out there, this work will help you look credible and reduce the time spent on fantasists. Instead, you can focus on finding the real deal – a Master or slave!

We will teach you how to communicate with potential Master/slave partners- for example, how to speak submissively.

Doing this means you can feel attractive and happy while also feeling confident that you have clearly communicated expectations, boundaries and limits in a way both of you have understood. This way, there will be no unpleasant surprises when you start meeting Masters/slaves to find the one of your dreams.

4. Deepen the relationship

We will teach the best ways a Master and slave can communicate without leaving their roles or needing to fight. For example, how to communicate when there is a problem or frustration building between the Master and slave. This is because new Master/slave relationships can often have many problems and issues, and successful M/s relationships have solved these problems through well-protocoled communication. We will also cover how to make open relationships involving polyamory work.

This allows you to fill more secure about the relationship and how to keep a Master/slave when you find one.

5. CHALLENGES

When searching for a Master/slave, there can be disappointments. For example, what happens when a relationship does not work out, or someone you really like changes their mind about meeting up? We go through techniques and practices you can use to get through these moments quickly so you can focus on finding the Master/slave for you.

6. Ownership

When you find a Master/slave with whom you deeply connect, there can still be a lot of fear of the decision of ownership. We will cover how to make such a decision – for example, make the decision easier through a series of trials. This means you can transform an overwhelming decision into a series of small, easy ones, leading you to decide easily around ownership.

I now know my future

As a 24/7 slave, being able to talk and openly explore every aspect of my life, including BDSM, which is core to my identity and lived experience, was wonderfully liberating and sustaining. 

It’s given me confidence and permission to express that my needs are valid and need to be taken into consideration from those around me.

Your coaching allowed me to explore and identify my core needs and roles in my life – both slave and mainstream – and map out options and actions for the future.

Now I have a much better idea of who I am and how to express this to those around me!

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Email me to book a free 20-minute call with me to find out how I can help you join the lifestyle and find your Master or slave