In this BDSM podcast epsiode we interview Dan Apus Monoceros. Dan is a Dom, Rigger, Sadist, Owner, Master and more. He has his own kink household, is a BDSM artist and runs some of the best BDSM nights in Berlin.
Dan talks about his journey to find his authentic form of dominance and his learnings and thoughts when he tried to become the stereotypical Master, and how important it is to define yourself as you want to be.
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[00:08:01.320] – Dan
If I have an inner if the other person has an inner expression like any doing saying, if I feel that there’s a high respect that this person is looking up to me and respecting myself, actually we can be on an eye on eye level. But I want to feel in what he is saying, that he is really putting his identity behind his wishes. Like what I want is first and then his idea. So if somebody, for example, a sub comes to me and makes like a pushy botton or something, I think this can be sometimes very sexy.
[00:08:37.770] – Dan
But I don’t want it if I don’t know that this is just to please me. Sometimes I have the feeling that the subs are really like, oh, no, I want to get fucked. And then he’s like trying to expose his ass to me and I feel like, OK, then I definitely don’t want to fuck you. But if it’s like an offer and I’m like, kind of OK, I’m, I want to get teased by you, then it’s correct.
[00:09:00.600] – Dan
And I want to have the feeling that this is really because he thinks that I like it and not because he wants it. And if I have this feeling then I’m really happy. And then it’s like I can change the whole story by SNAP and everything is in another direction. And that’s really at the point where I want. And then I let the whole situation go and then it can be but at the puppy pla,y bitch and Daddy or whatever, this can be really fun.
[00:09:25.890] – Dan
And I sometimes just let my subs play with each others. That’s really easy and really cool them. So yeah, if I get to this point, it’s enough for me.
[00:09:37.110]
It’s very interesting. It kind of triggered a thought from another conversation I had with someone else, which was at one point they were having issues with their slave and what they found out was the slave was trying to turn the master on in how the slave wanted it rather than doing it as the master. But like. Yes, is that something you can relate to……..
