In the second part of my interview with English Leather Master, we discuss the importance of integration for Master and slave personalities and in the Master/slave relationship. We discuss the importance of integrating oneself to integrating all the different aspects of your life – from your Master/slave relationship to work.
We also intimately cover the challenges and issues English Leather Master and his slave had in integrating, along with general challenges in their relationship – including some very personal experiences.
You can find part one of the interview here.
Important note: This episode contains a brief mention of suicide; please be aware if this subject triggers you.
Information on suicide
- In the US, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is at 800-273-8255 and online chat is also available. You can also text HOME to 741741 to connect with a crisis text line counselor.
- In the UK and Ireland, Samaritans can be contacted on 116 123 or by email jo@samaritans.org or jo@samaritans.ie.
- In Australia, the crisis support service Lifeline is 13 11 14.
- Other international helplines can be found at www.befrienders.org
More about English Leather Master and his slave
Safe for work:
- www.EnglishLeatherMaster.com
- Instagram @englishleathermaster / @elmssub
- Twitter @elmcoaching
Not safe for work:
- Twitter: @englishleatherm / @elmssub
Podcast index
- 01:18: Integration of both personal and all aspects of your life including BDSM Master/slave relationship
- 10:42: How to deal with the tensions and contradictions in trying to integrate yourself
- Adult Developement Theory by Keegan
- How you bring feeling great at the weekend into work
- 08:28: What challenges have they had in the relationship
- including the difference between reality and fantasy
- rewriting some of the beliefs that are no true – such as eye contact
- that the Dom is always the strong one
- A Master needs to own anger and frustration and not to put it on the slave
- 34:00: About their only fans site – how professional and personal come together
- 44:34: What makes a good Master
- 46:30: What makes a good slave
- 50:44: What would you like to see in the Master/slave relationship
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