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Free BDSM Coaching for Masters and slaves

Let’s face it – to try and live this life authentically is hard. From the fantasy to the reality of what lies beneath – we need courage and bravery to find and live our authentic selves. There are amazing ups, but there can be immense challenges. And there can be times we are uncertain and do not know what to do. BDSM Coaching can help in these times.

I offer my professional skills as a coach and my 20 years of experiences living the BDSM Master/slave lifestyle to help people when they need it.

I offer a 1-hour free online video coaching session for Masters or slaves who would like some support.

WHY OFFER BDSM COACHING FOR FREE?

I created this website to help create a larger community around the BDSM Master/slave lifestyle. A place where we can connect and support each other. Offering free coaching sessions is my way of helping to do this. 

There have been many times I wish there had been someone who could have guided or helped me. By being that person for other people, I hope that this lifestyle and community can become a little easier for people to live authentically.

COACH FOR A LIVING

In the business world, I am a coach. I coach individuals and leaders to grow, help them through challenging times and guide them through the growth they have decided. When doing this, I often find myself coaching people on life in general.

You might notice my coaching influence in this website’s articles with articles such as creating a slave CV.

WHAT I OFFER IN THE BDSM COACHING SESSION

In each session, I ask the person what the main goal or outcome they would like to achieve over an hour is. We then focus on this by helping you think through a goal and providing new perspectives. 

  • I approach each person and problem without judgement or shame, 
  • I deal with any problem, issue or goal you provide impartially and neutrally with no bias
  • I provide a safe and supportive environment for you to be open about any issues or thoughts you may have.

WHAT CAN BDSM COACHING FOR THE MASTER/SLAVE LIFESTYLE HELP ME WITH?

It can be anything! But some examples are:

  • Perhaps you are a Master looking for a full-time slave but having difficulties finding one. 
  • You are a slave, and you want a 24/7 Master, but something is stopping you from finding one
  • You have found someone and want impartial advice on how to make such a significant decision
  • How do you develop your Mastery or slavery further
  • Confusion about your role and what you think you could be
  • Help with creating your own CV
  • Struggling with issues around your Mastery or slavery
  • Advice on how do you move forward
  • Helping you if you feel blocked

This is a non-inclusive list, so if there is something else you want help with, please get in touch.

Things I cannot help with are:

  • Trauma
  • Issues that need a therapist
  • Finding a Master or slave for you – I’m afraid I do not have a list of people in your area, I can connect you with.

INTERESTED IN A BDSM COACHING SESSION?

If you are interested, please get in touch in the form below. Please spend some time (15-30 minutes) to fill in the form. Although this is free, I will be investing time in you, and you spend the time to fill this form shows me you are willing to invest some time.

If I receive a mostly blank form, I will assume you are not serious and will not set up a meeting.

WHAT IF I WANT MORE THAN ONE COACHING SESSION?

I am assuming most people will only want 1 session. But I am open to spending more time, but I will then charge for the subsequent session. Depending on the problem and how many sessions you would like, we can discuss a price.

WHAT OTHER HELP IS THERE?

This website is a great resource – check all the BDSM articles in the how-to section.

WHAT IF I NEED A THERAPIST?

You can also find therapists who can help. When searching for one, be upfront with what you what to talk about and ask if they are “Kink friendly.” 

And I case you are still worried, I have never had an issue with a therapist by being upfront about my lifestyle choices as a slave!

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