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BDSM Coaching for Masters and slaves

Let’s face it – to try and live this life authentically is hard. From the fantasy to the reality of what lies beneath – we need courage and bravery to find and live our authentic selves. There are amazing ups, but there can be immense challenges. And there can be times we are uncertain and do not know what to do. BDSM Coaching can help in these times.

I offer my professional skills as a coach and my 20 years of experiences living the BDSM Master/slave lifestyle to help people when they need it.

COACH FOR A LIVING

In the business world, I am a coach. I coach individuals and leaders to grow, help them through challenging times and guide them through the growth they have decided. When doing this, I often find myself coaching people on life in general.

BDSM Coach

I have been living the Master/salve Lifestyle for over 20 years, and from that I have a lot of experience and wisdom that helps in coaching people around BDSM and power dynamic topics

I have also done a vareity of BDSM workshops including Virtual Claw and The Stretch Festival amoungst others,

WHAT I OFFER IN THE BDSM COACHING SESSION

In each session, I ask the person what the main goal or outcome they would like to achieve over an hour is. We then focus on this by helping you think through a goal and providing new perspectives. 

  • I approach each person and problem without judgement or shame, 
  • I deal with any problem, issue or goal you provide impartially and neutrally with no bias
  • I provide a safe and supportive environment for you to be open about any issues or thoughts you may have.

WHAT CAN BDSM COACHING FOR THE MASTER/SLAVE LIFESTYLE HELP ME WITH?

It can be anything! But some examples are:

How to start your journey

  • Perhaps you are a Master looking for a full-time slave but having difficulties finding one. 
  • You are a slave, and you want a 24/7 Master, but something is stopping you from finding one

Making decisions and growth

  • You have found someone and want impartial advice on how to make such a significant decision
  • How do you develop your Mastery or slavery further
  • Confusion about your role and what you think you could be

Reflection and advice

  • Help with creating your own resume (Master or slave)
  • Struggling with issues around your Mastery or slavery
  • Advice on how do you move forward
  • Helping you if you feel blocked
  • Helping integrate both work and this lifestyle together (as so many see work as a condradiction to what they want to do as a relationship)

This is a non-inclusive list, so if there is something else you want help with, please get in touch.

Things I cannot help with are:

  • Trauma
  • Issues that need a therapist
  • Finding a Master or slave for you – I’m afraid I do not have a list of people in your area, I can connect you with.

INTERESTED IN A BDSM COACHING SESSION?

If you are interested, please get in touch in the form below. Please spend some time (15-30 minutes) filling in the form. I will be investing time in you, and you spend the time to fill this form shows me you are willing to invest some time in coaching.

If I receive a mostly blank form, I will assume you are not serious and will not set up a meeting.

30 minute free coaching

If you are not sure if you want to pay for a coaching session. I am happy to offer free 30-minute coaching. You can use this to see if you would like to go ahead with a full coaching session.

Price of a 60 minute coaching session

A 60 minutes coaching session is priced at $95 /95 euros / £95