Category: How To Become A Good BDSM Master

  • How to change your Master mindset

    How to change your Master mindset

    In my last article, I spoke about the different development stages as adults we can go through, and how Master can act, behave and be in the different stages.  In this article, I talk about the tactics you can use to move from one stage to another. Firstly I provide some general tactics around a…

  • Maturing the Master Mindset

    Maturing the Master Mindset

    When someone starts out as a Master, how do they mature and change over time? And can someone become a Master for the wrong reasons? In this article, I am going to cover a coaching model that can be used to map the changing of a Master’s mindset. In the next article, I will talk…

  • Don’t avoid the contradictions, be the Master/slave you truly are

    Don’t avoid the contradictions, be the Master/slave you truly are

    Just before I moved, I had received an email from a Master. In it, he was describing the contradiction of what he thought a Master should be, and what he was as a person. Because of this difference, he was feeling self-doubt and shame. I think many of us can relate to these feelings –…

  • Masters and spirituality

    Masters and spirituality

    Should a Master meditate and have a focus on spirituality, or is it only the slave? Here we will discuss the benefits of spirituality for the Master. In my series of articles on submission and spirituality, I walk people through a series of steps one can take to increase connection between the slave and Master.…

  • Why a good Master needs humility

    Why a good Master needs humility

    In this article we will talk about one of the many things a Master needs to be a good Master, and that is that any good Master needs humility. A strange statement to make. Is not humility something we seek in the slave, not the Master. But this contradiction can be answered by a question:…