Category: How to have a successful BDSM Master/slave relationship

  • Here are the surprising secrets behind the Master slave contract

    Here are the surprising secrets behind the Master slave contract

    When I first learnt that my fantasies could come real, one of the things that enthralled me the most was the idea of a Master slave contract. A Master/slave contract is a contract that formalises the relationship between Master and slave.  When I first came across them, I remember being so turned on as I…

  • Training approach to bring out heartfelt begging in BDSM slavery

    Training approach to bring out heartfelt begging in BDSM slavery

    How does a Master encourage a BDSM slave to beg on order and mean it? How does a Master train a slave, so their slave soul becomes primary? A Master need to divine what the slave needs and wants (normal, slave, and BDSM) to become primary for the slave part. Is it pain, or is…

  • Why a successful Master/slave relationship is through being BRAVE

    Why a successful Master/slave relationship is through being BRAVE

    When we find our Master or slave, how do we make sure the relationship will be strong and survive. What elements or features make a successful relationship, and how do these manifest in a Master/slave relationship? Trust One of the most important elements would be trust. But how do we learn to trust each other?…

  • What are the dynamics that can cause Master/slave relationships to go wrong

    What are the dynamics that can cause Master/slave relationships to go wrong

    What are some of the common dynamics where a Master slave relationship go wrong? In this article we will explore a few of these dynamics. These dynamics can often be unspoken and unrecognised by people, but they are felt and can cause a lot of hurt and ill feeling. Below is a non-exhaustive list of…

  • Why communication in BDSM and 24/7 is so important

    Why communication in BDSM and 24/7 is so important

    Communication, communication, communication. Time and time again we say on the BDSM scene that communication is very important. But why is communication so important in BDSM and in BDSM 24/7 relationships? When two people on the BDSM scene meet to play, discussing what they like and dislike is important. The reason to do this is…