Category: Powerful Self Reflections To Become The Best BDSM Master/Slave

  • Training approach to bring out heartfelt begging in BDSM slavery

    Training approach to bring out heartfelt begging in BDSM slavery

    How does a Master encourage a BDSM slave to beg on order and mean it? How does a Master train a slave, so their slave soul becomes primary? A Master need to divine what the slave needs and wants (normal, slave, and BDSM) to become primary for the slave part. Is it pain, or is…

  • How to change your Master mindset

    How to change your Master mindset

    In my last article, I spoke about the different development stages as adults we can go through, and how Master can act, behave and be in the different stages.  In this article, I talk about the tactics you can use to move from one stage to another. Firstly I provide some general tactics around a…

  • Maturing the Master Mindset

    Maturing the Master Mindset

    When someone starts out as a Master, how do they mature and change over time? And can someone become a Master for the wrong reasons? In this article, I am going to cover a coaching model that can be used to map the changing of a Master’s mindset. In the next article, I will talk…

  • Don’t avoid the contradictions, be the Master/slave you truly are

    Don’t avoid the contradictions, be the Master/slave you truly are

    Just before I moved, I had received an email from a Master. In it, he was describing the contradiction of what he thought a Master should be, and what he was as a person. Because of this difference, he was feeling self-doubt and shame. I think many of us can relate to these feelings –…

  • Creating a Master or slave resume

    Creating a Master or slave resume

    What can a slave offer a Master? We often focus on the sex, but service is much more than that.  Serving a Master can be anything. From sex to being an object, to cooking, to cleaning, to anything. So a good Master will want to know what you can offer them. Last year this gave…